Ask The Right Questions

Trying to resolve relationship problems after a breakup can be a terrible thing to experience, and most of us have, at some time, had to go through the trauma of a loved one leaving us, and being desperate to get our ex back.

It is not easy, especially if there are strong feelings involved. Sometimes the reason for the breakup is obvious, for example one or the other has strayed – in which case try survive an affair, but sometimes there does not seem to be any reason at all.

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Either way, it is usually painful and confusing, and although the pain is what you are focusing on, it is the confusion that is causing most of your trouble.

You will have certain thoughts and questions that are constantly running through your mind, questions that you never seem to able to answer.

  • I want my ex back!
  • What did I do wrong?
  • What can I do to fix things?
  • Can I get my ex back?
  • Are there ways to get my ex back
  • How do I go about getting my ex back?
  • Does my ex want to come back?

You will be feeling sad, hurt and possibly even guilty, but you don’t know what to do next. Do you try and contact them, or will that make things worse?

The truth is, you want to get your ex back, but you don’t know how.

This is what most people do to get their ex back after a relationship breaks up.

They try and force them to come back, they do this by trying to convince their ex that they have made a bad decision, that everything will be alright if they only come back.

If their ex did something wrong then they will say that they have forgiven them and they are willing to forget everything that has happened. They didn’t really want to breakup.

They may even switch the blame to themselves, saying it was their fault that their ex did whatever it was that caused the rift.

If it was them, instead of their ex, that did the wrong-doing, then they beg for forgiveness and swear that it will never happen again.

They will probably even cry to try and emphasize their remorse for whatever they did. They may even resort to pleading for their ex to come back.

This Doesn’t Work

This is all wrong, it is not the way to get your ex back, it is how to drive them further away.

For some, a kind of panic can set in. They fear that any time apart will be catastrophic for their relationship.

They think that once their ex has gone for any length of time that their ex will just move on and never think of them again, and the longer they are apart, the worse this feeling becomes.

In desperation to get their ex back, they resort to almost stalking their ex.

Constant texting, phone calls, and trying to be in the same places their ex is. They sometimes resort to contacting their ex’s family and friends and pouring their heart out to them.

They are really attempting to pressurize their ex to come back.

Again, this is all wrong, this will drive them away for good.

You see what I mean about the confusion being the real stumbling block?

If you could think clearly, you would realize that these methods cannot work, they can only make things a hundred times worse.

So, can I get my ex back?

Yes, it is a real possibility, most relationship problems can be resolved.

Are there ways to get my ex back?

Again, yes. there are well tried and tested techniques and methods that work very well to fix relationships. Some involve relationship (or couples) counselling and others that are more DIY style.

Both can be very effective ways of achieving good results and choosing which depends greatly on personal choice. Some people respond more to others helping them and some prefer being more in control.

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