Fixing Your BreakupAuthor: +Freddie Cook
Fixing your breakup is a real possibility.
But before you try and fix your breakup, ask yourself this question…
Is it really a good idea for you and your ex to get back together and rekindle your relationship?
…That is one of those questions that nearly every couple should ask themselves when they come to the point of breaking up.
No matter how much you love your ex, or how much you want to rekindle your relationship, you are going to have to decide whether or not it would be GOOD for you and your ex to get back together again.
And that is going to depend on what will make you truly happy.
This is also going to depend on whether or not you guys are going to end up walking down the exact same path as before. If you do, then you’ll most likely repeat the same mistakes and find yourselves in yet another breakup.
If you truly do want to get back together with your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend, then the first thing that you are going to have to do is spend a little bit of time soul searching and putting together an effective plan to fix your breakup once and for all.
You don’t want to go through another split up further down the road.
Can you address what problems occurred that caused the relationship breakup in the first place so that you can prevent it from happening again?
It is really easy for you to only think about the good times when a breakup occurs. If you are going to rekindle the love between you both then you are going to need to be able to think about your entire relationship objectively, including both the good times and the bad.
In reality, most relationships are definitely worthy of being saved.
There are a few, however, that are unworthy of putting effort into even attempting to save.
So, should you and your ex get back together? It really comes down to how much time you spent being happy with one another and how much time you spent fighting, disagreeing or having problems.
If the relationship was characteristically unstable, then it might be a good idea to leave your breakup as it is and not to rekindle things.
However, if you decide that getting back together is the right thing to do then you should know that pestering your ex or cramming yourself down their throat is not going to succeed, or make things any better.
In fact, the best thing that you can do is step back, give your ex some time, and do your own thinking about the situation before you make anything happen.
Do not plead, argue or beg your ex to get back with them, because desperation is never attractive and will only make everything significantly more difficult for you.
Stop beating yourself up over breaking up with your ex, even if you regret doing whatever it was that led to the breakup in the first place, because the past is the past, you can’t change it, and it is time to focus on the here and now.
In order to rekindle the relationship with your ex after a breakup and get back together again, you will need time to play it cool so that you can avoid rushing into using all the wrong techniques and end up making things worse.
You will need to know what you are doing first.
There are too many ways of going about getting your ex back that will simply drive them further away. Unfortunately, these also tend to be the most intuitive and common things that couples rush headlong into trying.
After a breakup, trying to rekindle your relationship can be a daunting task. So, where do you start?
In truth, there are many methods and techniques that can be used to get you both back together again. The problem is finding the right ones for you.
We are all different. Your character and personality is unique to you. Which makes some techniques look really out of place if you were to use them, and others that would appear and feel really natural.
If you use a method to get your ex back that looks too unnatural, you run the risk of it not working, or worse… driving your ex off for good.
What you really need is a plan of action that you can put to work for you that fits in with your own unique character.
A plan that you feel comfortable with and one that you are confident will work. You need to know what your choices are and how to implement them.
There is simply too much, and too many choices, to cover in an article – or series of articles. It’s not just the techniques, but which ones to choose and how to use them together and in the right order, that is crucial for your success.
It will help you deal with your pain and uncertainty.
It will give you a clear path to follow and banish the confusion you feel.
It will show you how, and when, to approach your ex and feel confident when you do.
It shows you how to fix your relationship so that it will become stronger and more loving than before.
A proper plan needs to be a complete system to get your ex back in your arms again…
To your success.
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