I Want Him To Love Me Again – Ex Boyfriend Tips

Reignite The Spark – He’ll Love You For It

Losing the love of your life is one of the hardest things to deal with. You can either walk away and accept the breakup or you can try and do something about it. Rekindling his love for you, if you can manage it, capturing his heart is a sure fire way to succeed.

So, how do you go about getting him interested again when he has made it very clear that he doesn’t want to see or hear from you again? Well, it doesn’t have to be impossible, you just have to go about it the right way.

Read this post ==> How To Make Your Ex Give In To You. . . and Save Your Relationship. . .

I really don’t think there are many things worse in life than screwing up and losing a good relationship. It’s hard enough when things fall apart and it wasn’t your fault (mostly). But when you’ve done it to yourself, that is the worst.

The regret, the pain, the shame all combine to make you feel pretty lousy. If you find yourself in this situation and you’re saying “I want him to love me again” then pay attention, I may just be able to help…

Start With Your Relationship

First things first, what went wrong? What did you do or say that pushed him away and, more importantly, why did you do or say those things?

It’s not uncommon for people to sabotage a good relationship. I know that sounds dumb but many people simply don’t know how to react when something good happens to them. They will allow all the negative thoughts inside of them (as well as the negatives in the outside world) to mess with their head.

They will become convinced that this relationship is just too good to be true, too good to last. They will sub consciously sabotage it and ruin it.

They don’t realize they are doing it, but the end result is the same: they’ve screwed up a great relationship and now they get to be “right.”

You see, if in their minds they are convinced that a relationship can’t last, especially a good relationship, and they sub consciously ruin it, then they were right. They can say “See, I knew this relationship wouldn’t last” They might be right but they are also lonely and in pain.

What I have just outlined is very, very common. The worst part is you don’t even realize that’s what you’re doing.

So if you want to get your lover to be in love with you again, and you realize now just what you’ve done, you can still fix it by capturing his heart again.

The first thing you really should do is to find a good (and no, not all of them are good) counselor. You need to work out why you don’t believe that good things can happen, or why you believe that good things can’t, or shouldn’t, happen to you.

Then you should talk openly and honestly with him. Let him know that you now realize that you were the one, even though it was on a sub conscious level, that pushed him away.

Don’t be afraid to be completely honest with him. Tell him that you’re sorry and more importantly that you’ve gotten help and now you are a bigger person who can enjoy the benefits of a great relationship.

Gaining His Trust

It might take a while for him to learn to trust you again. If this is what you want, you have to be willing to give him time. Anyone who has been hurt is going to have a really hard time trusting that person again and risk being hurt all over again. But with time, patience, and a lot of love you can find a way to win him back.

There are many reasons why relationships fall apart. Sometimes the relationship just isn’t any good and it’s for the best, but other times we can all be guilty of throwing away the best thing that ever happened to us.

When that happens and all you want is for him to love you again. . . just know that virtually anything can be overcome if you want it badly enough. . .

Read this post ==> How To Make Your Ex Give In To You. . . and Save Your Relationship. . .