Get Your Ex Back In StyleAuthor: +Freddie Cook
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Fix Your Relationship And Feel The Magic Again
It’s not something we are born with, it’s not a school subject and it’s rarely – if ever – discussed in the home. Fixing relationship problems is one of those things that almost everyone is expected to ‘just wing it’.
Let’s face it, even if breakups were discussed within friends or family circles, they only have their own experiences or, even worse, anecdotes to go by.
That leaves us with the choice of relying on our own instincts or seeking professional help.
But using the services of relationship counselors seems to be a last resort for most couples, if they are used at all.
This shouldn’t be too surprising when you consider that all relationships go through their ups and downs and, usually, we manage to overcome these problems without any outside help.
We are used to fending for ourselves and somehow manage to overcome these relationship issues remarkably well.
At least, that’s how it appears on the surface…
… and that’s also one of the main reasons that couples breakup.
Problems not being dealt with properly or simply ignored, can build up until one, or the other, has had enough.
Of course, sometimes couples breakup because of one big issue that has happened and neither of them know how to handle it. Adultery is a common example, how DO you overcome an affair?
Well… big problems are usually the result of little problems blown out of all proportion.
1. Compromise Is Crucial
Sometimes one partner, without necessarily realizing it, dominates the relationship. If either of the couples is always having to give way to the other’s decisions, then resentment grows. Eventually these feelings WILL surface.
It has to be a two-way street. Compromise is about negotiation… not domination. Don’t be the one to always gives or the one that always takes as there will come a point where your relationship will suffer the consequences.
2. Be A Good Listener
Listening to EACH other’s sentiments shows sincerity and respect. If you feel you always do the talking and you have not given your partner time to talk, or you don’t really listen to what they are saying, then… stop.
Try to hear what your partner is trying to say to you. If you BOTH can manage this everything will just fall into place.
3. Communication Is The Key
One of the most essential components of any relationship is effective communication. Being able to discuss each other’s needs, desires, hopes and plans is paramount to allow love to nurture and grow in your relationship.
In this way, a couple share those intimate and deep held beliefs with each other.
4. Keep Focused On Your Appearance And Behavior
This is a sad truth, but once a relationship is established, it becomes all too easy to relax and stop putting the same emphasis into some of these personal issues.
Just because you have captured the one you love is not an excuse to make little or no effort in retaining their attention and admiration. Look your best and be your best, if not all of the time, at least make the effort when it matters.
5. Cherish Each Other
It’s also very easy to take each other for granted. It seems that the longer a couple is together, the more likely they are to simply assume that each other ‘just knows.’ That doesn’t mean you don’t cherish each other, but if you both let the other simply assume that you still care you run the risk of growing apart.
That’s not as simplistic as it sounds, it really can be the beginning of the end.
Long lasting couples are those who continue to cherish their relationship in spite of the problems they are facing.
So, how to fix your relationship then?
How are you able to manage the good parts AND the bad parts of your relationship?
Fixing a relationship means three things: LOVE, CONNECTION and RESPECT.
It’s all about emotions. . .
Of course, putting the magic back into your relationship is so much easier if you are still together. So, why not do both at the same time and plan to rekindle your relationship and fix your breakup… forever.
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