Does My Ex Want To Come Back Or Is It Just Wishful Thinking?Author: +Freddie Cook
As long as relationships break up, people will be asking the question, “Are there signs my ex wants to get back with me?” This is a natural reaction following a breakup, especially if the split came as a surprise or was unwanted.
It is common when relationships are ended that one of the couple wants the relationship to continue, sometimes it’s just because they don’t relish being dumped, but at other times it’s because they genuinely love their partner and are not ready for the finality of their relationship coming to an end.
Then they look for ways to recapture the love & romance of their ex, or look for signs their ex might want them back.
Hope, if nothing else, is one of the things that separates us from the rest of the animal kingdom. Sometimes it’s misplaced, but even then, hope keeps us going, it keeps us positive and gives us something to cling to for our future prospects.
So it’s very natural to hope that your ex has realized that they have made a mistake and that your ex wants to get back together with you.
But, how do you find out if that’s the case or not? Are there signs my ex wants to get back with me?
Well, the answer to that question is a definite, “Yes!” And what’s more, they can’t help giving you the signs that they want you back.
You just have to know what to look for. But, before you go all out to see if you can notice these signals your ex is giving you, you have to ask yourself, “Is it possible that my ex wants me back?”
The possibility depends a lot on the break up itself, was it a bad break up? Was it sudden or was there a big build up to it? What was the reason for the split?
These questions need to be answered first, only you can determine the likelihood of your ex wanting to come back and give your relationship another go. There is little point in getting excited about noticing positive signals from your ex if the reality is that they wouldn’t come back even if they wanted to. Just be careful and take your time.
As I said, there are always signals given off by your ex, in fact by everyone, and all the time. We don’t just communicate verbally, we also, unintentionally, use body language and other nuances like showing excitement or eagerness, sadness or maybe even simply an air of indifference.
We are constantly communicating without words, and for the most part, we do it unknowingly, it just happens. The truth is that it is very difficult for us to stop doing it.
The good news is, your ex does all these forms of communication as well. looking out for the signs that answer the question posed by the title of this article, “Are there signs my ex wants to get back with me?” can be educational and entertaining as well as informative.
But, be careful here as well, you want to avoid letting yourself become compulsive or in any way paranoid about looking out for these tell-tale signs, although you will find it helpful information to have if you are wanting to get your ex back, it could hurt you even more to get your hopes up if you end up misreading the signals, and possibly even embarrassing.
The body language signals themselves are pretty universal in nature, for instance, when two people are getting on well and are interested in each other, they tend to mirror each others actions, like, if you are both sitting in a bar having a drink, when one of you reaches for your glass the other will most likely reach for theirs, you’ll both be, at least, almost facing each other even if you’re sitting side by side.
When one is talking the other is listening intently and you both keep looking into each others eyes, they may just be glances and not intently staring at each other, but the eyes tell their own story.
These are both obvious and common mannerisms to look out for, the following link, “Are there signs my ex wants to get back with me?” outlines 24 signs that you can look out for.
Don’t just react with jumps of joy if you notice one of these signs from your ex, use your judgment, the more you see the better and the more likely it will be that your ex does indeed want to come back to you. But, take a note of the body language as well as signs of eagerness and excitement.
If you make a suggestion and they seem to agree with you very quickly then these type of actions should be telling you something positive, the point being, don’t just rely on a few signs, use your judgment and instincts, you don’t need to be an expert on body language to pick up on it,… we all do it… all the time.
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